Some “scary” animals would like you to have a better day.
i want these on shirts
I want these on my skin. Forever.
-Canadian, 25, Artist, White, Demi-dude, Trans, Poly, Kinky, Gray-Asexual, Quoiromantic, Survivor, Feminist, Sex Positive-
Sometimes I feel really guilty about the “type” of person I’m aesthetically attracted to. For the most part I’m really only attracted to skinny or athletic guys who are clean shaven as much as possible…and on one hand I feel guilty because skinny, athletic, and clean shaven are the exact opposite…
You really can’t help who you’re attracted to, aesthetically or otherwise. Look at my aesthetic blog. There’s all sorts on there, but that might be because I’m Ace. I have no desire to do more than paint or cuddle these people. Maybe stare at them all day. Be a general nonsexual creep. Not sure that makes me less of a creep though rofl.
But seriously, I feel guilty for not being attracted to what most other people find attractive. People are swooning over celebrities amd characters or drawing them with body types and facial features or skin colors that aren’t true to the character and I’m sitting over here like -twiddles thumbs-
Tl;dr: you can’t help who makes you perk up and pay attention. After all, I hardly fit your “usual” and yet here we are ;)
rly cool thing to do: train yourself to have they/them be your reflexive go-to pronoun
It works pretty well and most people don’t even notice, let alone complain.
it saves me a lot of hesitation and processing, too.
I use they/them/their unless told otherwise. I have met very few people who weren’t okay with it, and it’s great for referrering to systems as well!
493. A transgender muggleborn wondering about the possibilities of a potion to change their appearance. Little did they know, until a pureblood told them, the potions are actually quite cheap and can be taken at the school. Best reaction ever: going up to their male/female dorm.
634. A group of first years, upon being informed they can’t bring their beloved Pokemon games to Hogwarts, convince some talented older muggleborns to enchant scraps of wood and paper into acting like living little Pokemon for the young ones to have battles in the dark of their dorms. This soon goes from secret activity to second-most popular Hogwarts competitive sport.
Two of my favorite fandoms in one? YES PLEASE
if you ever try to befriend me and you expect to be in frequent contact with me i am so sorry. i do that with maybe two people and even then i often go days or weeks withouts saying anything before talking daily for a while.
the point is if we dont talk that doesnt mean i dont like u and think about u a lot im just terrible at maintaining close relationships